PRENUPTIAL INVESTIGATIONS

Can you answer these questions about your potential spouse?
(and without subjecting the person to a shot of truth serum?)

Where did the person go to school? High school? College?
Trade school?

What did the person want to be when he or she grew up?
What does the person want to do now?
Was the person ever in the Service?
How did it go for him or her?

What is the person’s profession or trade? Where does the person work? Is the person career driven? Or does he or she treat jobs as just places to go to get paychecks? Is the person satisfied with the work he or she is doing?

What are the person’s basic beliefs?
What is the person’s religion? Politics?

What are the person’s favorite pastimes? Besides sex?

Is the person close with parents? Brothers and sisters? Friends? People at work? Does he or she have a lot of friends and associates? Or a few close and cherished friends and relatives?

If the person doesn’t get along with his or her family, are they jerks? Have you ever met these people?

Has the person ever been married before? Did he or she divorce? Multiple divorces?
How is the person handling the fallout from divorce? What are the obligations from the divorce?
Can you handle being treated with some distrust or being compared to the divorced spouse?

Did the person lose a spouse or a fiance(e) thru death? How is the person dealing with the grief and sense of loss of a spouse? Can you handle being compared to that loved spouse or fiance(e)?

If there are children, where are they now? What are his or her responsibilities to those children?
Is there a big difference between you and your sweetheart on abortion or on having children? Or on disciplining children?

Has the person committed any crimes? Been convicted? Cleared? What really happened?

Has the person been in a lawsuit? What happened? Does any lawsuit show the person’s character flaws? Is he or she a liar, cheat, manipulator, or a white-collar criminal — someone you should run from?

And could you stand up to the same scrutiny?

Also – Parents, if one of your children intends to bring a destructive spouse into your family circle, we can help you check on Mr. or Ms. Problem-In-Law to help you stop a wedding or limit damage later.

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